Guys I'm donnnneeeeeeeeeeeeee.
This election cycle. Stanford. THE EFFING GORILLA SITUATION.
In case you don't know, I work in social media so about 115% of my time is spent trying to ignore the utter trash that is the internet. It's exhausting, but I don't think I've ever been at my wit's end like I am this week.
I try to be a rational human on social. I really do. I try and keep my opinions to myself and not go ham on the (frankly) crazy stuff I see plastered across Facebook, but it's come to a boiling point. Either I have to quit social and spend the rest of my days hiding in a mountain cave or I get my rant on. So here goes puppies. Feel free to not read this if you:
- Have a problem with me being a Christian
- Have a problem with me being a Feminist
- Have a problem with the hottest of takes...
Let's go line by line shall we?
The Gorilla Situation
I figured we can start small/easy. This is tragic. The gorilla was acting like what it was. A wild animal.
IF YOU DON'T HAVE CHILDREN, HOWEVER, YOU CANNOT COMMENT.
Children are crazy. Even the best, most well behaved, impeccably parented children I know go off the rails and do stupid shit. YOU did stupid shit when you were young. And if you're up on your high horse saying that that's why you don't have kids, welp good for you. But people have children. And it makes them tired sometimes. It doesn't make them bad parents.
YOU DO NOT KNOW THE MOTHER OF THE CHILD THAT WENT INTO THE ENCLOSURE. So please stop judging her. But feel free to mourn the loss of the gorilla. It's very sad. And should be avoided in the future by learning from the past and making the enclosure harder to access. Finé.
Female Genital Mutilation
FGM. This one will be short because I can't think about it without crying. Here's the deal. If you EVER find yourself being the person asking "Why do you still bother with Feminism? You have all the rights you need...." remember that:
- Women still don't make the same wages as men and...
- THERE ARE PLACES IN THE WORLD WHERE GROUPS OF HUMANS CUT OFF THEIR DAUGHTER'S CLITORISES EXPRESSLY IN ORDER TO SUPPRESS THEIR SEX DRIVES AND MAKE THEM "PURE"
A girl in Egypt DIED because it is traditional that she be stripped of her sexuality because women with sexual desires are seen as dirty dirty sluts who can't be controlled. I don't fight for Feminism because I deserve better rights (though I do.) I fight because there are women in the world who are killed trying to rid them of anything that might make them harder to subdue.
The Drumf Situation
I don't know anyone yet who is copping to voting for Trump. Do you? But people are.
This election cycle is really showing me the kind of backbone that our country is actually built on. And GUESS WHAT. It's a racist, sexist, narcissistic, self congratulatory backbone that hates the kind of free speech it masquerades behind.
I have actual family members who think that Trump is a more Christian friendly candidate. I think they should probably take a bit closer of a look at what Christ was about.
And lastly... but not least:
The Stanford Rapist
Truth be told I think most people have their heads on straight about this one. It's great to see people rallying behind the victim of this crime and calling out the perpetrator and the justice system that failed the victim.
HOWEVER. I have seen some crazy town stuff. One thing is the way that the media is portraying Brock the Jock vs. any given man of color. But that's not the only crazies that this situation brought out of the woodwork. My very least favorite one was an instance of a woman using this situation as a moment to thank men who don't rape for that courageous action.
Let's be clear. Tragedy and violence are NOT an opportunity to pat the Christian men in our lives on the back for not being rapists. Rape isn’t a cowardly act. It’s a violent and selfish one. It doesn’t take courage to not rape. It takes humanity.
Congratulating men who don’t act inappropriately and violently takes the focus off of where it aught to be, on the impact on the victim and the incredible injustice with which she has been treated by her attacker and the justice system who has been so tolerant of him.
And here's my last thought:
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD CAN WE SPEND ONE MOMENT NOT TALKING ABOUT MEN?
I know I've done almost exclusively that in this post. But I am so sick of them. Of debating them. Of being afraid of them. Of having them comment on my legs when I walk past them on the street, not because they care but because they CAN. Of knowing that they're sitting in a room talking about how women should use, not use, cover, not cover, show, market, or protect our bodies. I need a week on a man-less island. I need a Man-cation if you will.
I definitely not sorry for this rant. Send me back your own hot takes.
K-
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